Who I am and why I’m here.

I am a psychologist (Ph.D.) but I am not here to market myself or to sell anything.  I’m here to shatter the myth that there are no sexually dominant (and, in my case, generally insatiable) women who love (in my case, need) to dominate men sexually.  So don’t look for photos, videos, etc.

I’m here to support those women (like I used to be) who may feel uncomfortable with their dominant needs, as well as to support men genuinely interested in exploring any submissive feelings that might have.  Beware:  I am not interested in wimpy men.  I like to break the strongest of men and explore their limits (and mine).

Also Beware: I am not selling or soliciting any services so you won’t see many pictures, videos or other crap here and I won’t respond to request for such.

Men, Beware: I assure you that I am not the least interested in pictures of your dick or your belief that you can “fix” or change me (more on that later).  If you were lucky enough to be an interest of mine, your dick would most likely be in a cage, your orgasms would be infrequent and most of the time would be a result of the effect of my toys on your prostate:  In other words, less than fully satisfying to you (though immensely satisfying to me).   Also, as I mentioned, I am not a pro.  I’m not looking for anyone to give me anything or to “top from the bottom.”  Nearly, half the fun for me is to find you and seduce you into agreeing to my plans for you.

This is a place for support and discussion.  I already have a long-term, live-in male lover who is very dominant in every other area of his life (and, formerly, in bed as well) but who is completely under my power sexually.  I have many occasional male partners and need no emotional attachment with them.  I am bisexual and have a very few female partners.  I am NOT dominant with women, though I love those few who are willing to join me in increasing the discomfort of my men.  I do need an attachment to the women with whom I am involved so I have relatively few women lovers and they are generally longer term (though occasionally I’ll come across someone who for whatever reason results in a one-night stand).

Attention Men: Let me repeat because you tend to have tunnel vision when it comes to sex.  If you still thing you can change me, let me assure you that if I were the least bit interested in you, you would be bent over my equipment right now and I would be exploring the limits of your pain threshold.  Saturday afternoon, my pet and I were at a party.  We met a man like many of you who claimed that his dick was some kind of magic want that would render me powerless to resist him.  I agreed to let him try but only if he let me do it my way first.  While everything I do is consensual, use of a safe word or refusal to do my bidding result in immediate ejection (supported by my live-in pet who was, until last year, a professional rodeo cowboy, is 6’4″ and weighs 245).  To my novice’s credit, he lasted longer than most.  Nevertheless, by the time my efforts with my strapon had relieved him of his seed despite the gates of hell CBT plug in which I had locked his “magic” wand, he had lost interest in using it to satisfy his original more selfish desires.

Parting words:  I’m fairly inexperienced with blogging and with WordPress so be patient with me as I get started.

With all that said, let’s open the dialogue.